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Make Way For Other Toys (from 1996)

This piece was originally published in Cake: The Nonmusic Music Magazine in 1996. I reproduce it here because the original source is not available online. The Magzine’s format was to ask a musician to write on a theme other than music. The theme of this issue, which initially perplexed me but which led me into some very emotional areas, was “Toys.”

What do I know about toys?  I haven’t thought about toys in years. But, there was a time they were a big deal to me.  What’s that line from Puff the Magic Dragon,

Dragons live forever not so little boys,

Pirate ships and dragon’s tails make way for other toys.

Growing up is a series of giving up the toys of one age for the toys of the next age.

The first toys I can remember playing with when I was about 3, were stuffed animals, Matchbox cars, and wooden blocks.  This was after I had already given up the toddler’s toys I don’t even remember.  I loved to build things with blocks.  I built roads and entire cities, and I’d push my Match Box cars around my building-block roads, imagining what the drivers were doing. The urban planning might have been simple but there was a complex story behind it.

Some psychologists believe that boys build towers and girls build forts and other enclosures.  If that’s true, it took me a while to grow into my masculinity.  After a prolonged road period I started erecting towers, once I started, I just wanted more blocks so I could build bigger towers.

In elementary school, bats and balls became toys of mine; I learned to play football and baseball.  But, playing sports and playing with toys are two different things.  Sports doesn’t involve pretending, which was the only kind of playing I knew as a preschooler.  In elementary school, sports and make-believe toys had a peaceful coexistence. I played with Lego blocks, toy guns, learned to ride a bike and how to swim.  Even swimming was a make-believe game.  I pretended I was a diver searching for sunken treasure.  When I was 7 or 8 years old I built model ships.  A few years later I blew them up with firecrackers.  This was about when I gave up the stuffed animals.  I also drew maps of imaginary places, with imaginary stories behind them.  This might sound strange, but there are a lot of kids who draw maps.  It’s just another way to pretend.

In this Nov. 21, 2016, photo, a boy clutches a toy duck as he views a sculpture depicting the classic children’s story “Make Way for Ducklings” at an exhibit at the Museum of Fine Arts in Boston. The new exhibition is devoted to Robert McCloskey, the award-winning author of 1941’s “Make Way for Ducklings” and other children’s classics. (AP Photo/Charles Krupa)

By the time junior high came around, sports edged out make-believe.  I stuck with the Legos ‘till eighth grade, and I still drew maps, but, by that time playing mostly meant playing sports. I preferred backyard disorganized sports to the organized kind because they were less pressure-filled and competitive.  But I played organized sports anyway, just ‘cause that was what you did.  I still swam, but that had become a sport too.  No more deep sea diver, my friends and I played a vicious brand of tennis-ball tag.

By the time I started high school It was clear I was no jock, and I lost interest in most participation sports.  I skied, played board games, cards, euchre, dungeons and dragons, and video games.  My life changed in my sophomore year when the car and the guitar became my toys.  We got a band together.  We drove a half an hour to the nearest big city: South Bend, Indiana.  Remember when going out for a movie and a pizza or just driving around, was just so cool?  It seems so childish now, but compared to what we had been doing up to this point it was just so adult.  Only a few years earlier getting together with friends meant playing.  Now getting together with friends meant going out for dinner and sitting and talking.  For me, there was still one imaginary toy, maps.  I drew them throughout high school, whenever class got boring I’d whip out my pencil and draw a world.  I finally stopped in college when I had to take notes in pen.

In college, the car became less of a toy and more of a tool.  Still the guitar, video games (more than ever), board games, and now beer.  I suppose drugs and alcohol are the toys of choice for big kids; a poor substitute for all the imagination we used to play with.  This brings me back to “Puff the Magic Dragon” which is about a boy outgrowing his toys.  Although Peter Paul and Mary deny it, on another level it’s about a marijuana smoker going on to harder drugs [puff the magic dragon Jackie’s Papers], but in one way those are the same thing.

Now I’m Thirty-one.  I still play the guitar, drive a car, ride a bike, daydream, and I still drink, but not like I did in college.  Not long ago I was visiting my five-year-old nephew and he wanted me to play with him.  I showed him how to build a road for Matchbox cars out of wooden blocks, and that was fun.  When the road was built, I thought we were done, but he wanted to play with it.  He told me to, “Take this car and pretend you’re going to work.”  But, I couldn’t do it.  I was bored.  I could still build, but I couldn’t play.  I tried to draw a map – couldn’t do it.  Right now, I could build a tower or a model, and I could play football or baseball, but somewhere along there I lost my ability to pretend.

I forgot how to play with toys.

-Karl Widerquist, New York, NY 1996

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Karl Widerquist is an Associate Professor of political philosophy at SFS-Qatar, Georgetown University, specializing in distributive justice—the ethics of who has what. Much of his work involves Universal Basic Income (UBI). He is a co-founder of the U.S. Basic Income Guarantee Network (USBIG). He served as co-chair of the Basic Income Earth Network (BIEN) for 7 years, and now serves as vice-chair. He was the Editor of the USBIG NewsFlash for 15 years and of the BIEN NewsFlash for 4 years. He is a cofounder of BIEN’s news website, Basic Income News, the main source of just-the-facts reporting on UBI worldwide. He is a cofounder and editor of the journal Basic Income Studies, the only academic journal devoted to research on UBI. Widerquist has published several books and many articles on UBI both in academic journals and in the popular media. He has appeared on or been quoted by many major media outlets, such as NPR’s On Point, NPR’s Marketplace, PRI’s the World, CNBC, Al-Jazeera, 538, Vice, Dissent, the New York Times, Forbes, the Financial Times, and the Atlantic Monthly, which called him “a leader of the worldwide basic income movement.” Widerquist holds two doctorates—one in Political Theory form Oxford University (2006) and one in Economics from the City University of New York (1996). He has published seven books, including Prehistoric Myths in Modern Political Philosophy (Edinburgh University Press 2017, coauthored by Grant S. McCall) and Independence, Propertylessness, and Basic Income: A Theory of Freedom as the Power to Say No (Palgrave Macmillan 2013). He has published more than a twenty scholarly articles and book chapters. Most Karl Widerquist’s writing is available on his “Selected Works” website (works.bepress.com/widerquist/). More information about him is available on his BIEN profile and on Wikipedia. He writes the blog "the Indepentarian" for Basic Income News.

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